徽商宝典The Treasure of Anhui Mercha

人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西，如果你不给自己烦恼，别人很难给你烦恼，因为你自己的内心，你放不下，好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。People are painful, because they are in pursuit of the wrong things. The trouble only troubles trouble itself. Let it go in your heart, mind your own business rather than others.

在当今社会，总有一些既想舒心获得，又不愿苦心付出的“自在”者。

In the modern society, there are always some individuals who want to gain without efforts.

有的只想吃香喝辣而不想吃苦受累，让梦想成了梦幻；有的想出彩而不想出力，让愿景成了泡影；有的想升迁而不想作为，让机遇成了“危机”。

Some just want to lead a fairly good life without paying for a penny of effort and pains, which only makes their dreams fail. Some are eager to excel without making efforts, only to make their visions become bubbles. Some want to get promoted by doing nothing, which changes opportunities to crises.

殊不知，天下没有坐享其成的好事。没有一个人愿意输，但没有输何来赢?凡事要先去做，然后再考虑结果，无论是输还是赢，都要用心去对待。

It is known to all that there are no achievements with no efforts. Nobody wants to lose, but you can’t win without losing ahead. We need to try a hand firstly, then results can be taken into consideration. No matter it will win or lose, we should treat it with whole heart and soul.

输了也没关系，大不了从头再来，赢了更好，关键要去做，有行动。不要因为输不起而不去做。不畏世俗人言，自然少了庸人自扰的烦恼，“所谓'心安'，就是心里没有后悔的事，没有亏心的事，没有想不开的事。不为名所累，不为利所役。不眼热权势，不艳羡富贵。

It doesn’t matter to lose, we can start it all over again. The key is to take actions . Don’t be scared of failure,try it. Don’t mind others’ gossips.then you will have less troubles in mind. The so-called “peace of mind” means that there are no regrets, compunction, overdue fame,burden of fortune and power in your heart.