感谢宇宙奇迹让我遇见你

我的相似三角形：

My similar triangle：

前天是我们相遇的周年纪念日，特此写信来感谢遇见。我为这封信的迟到以及我在你生命里的迟到道歉，让你久等了。

The day before yesterday was the anniversary of the day I first met you. I am writing to appreciate our encounter. I apologize for the delay of this letter and for being late in your life and keeping you waiting.

我很高兴地看到，在我迟到的日子里，你有照顾好自己，认真生活。在没遇见你的日子里，我在等待中学习和思考爱情，深谙“要找到一个好伴侣，自己首先得是一个好伴侣”，深深地羡慕杨绛钱钟书，代王窦漪房的感情。

I'm glad to see that on the days when I was not around, you took good care of yourself and took your life seriously. Before meeting you, I had been learning and thinking about love while waiting, knowing that "to find a good partner, one must be a good partner first", and deeply admiring the relationships between Yang Jiang and Qian Zhong Shu, King Dai and Dou Yi Fang.

遇见你之后，我每分每秒都在感激，你“看见”了我，完整了我的梦，补全了我自己没能治愈的缺口，我享受跟你在一起的每个当下。我每时每刻都在感叹自己如此幸运，在最美好的年纪，遇到和我如此契合的你。

Ever since I met you, I have been grateful every minute of the day. You see through me, fulfilled my dream, healed the part that I was not able to heal by myself. I enjoy every moment with you, and I couldn’t feel luckier to have met someone who is so right for me in the best years of my life.

谢谢你让我愿意认真地去学习经营一段成熟的恋爱关系。我会在认清现实之后对你保持积极的幻想，持续提升自己的心智化程度，并在之后的岁月里给予你陪伴，尊重，支持。我们在理智中追寻浪漫，在相似里发现互补，相互治愈，双向奔赴。仿佛永远分离，却又终身相依。千古知音最难觅，何其有幸遇见你。

It is because of you that I am willing to take a mature relationship seriously and to learn how to cultivate it. I will keep a positive illusion of you based on reality, continuously enhance my mentalization, keep your company, respect you and support you in the following years. We seek sensitivity in the sense; we find complementarity within similarity, we heal each other, and we run toward each other. It is as if we were separated forever yet depend on each other lifelong. It has always been the hardest thing to find a soulmate, therefore, it is my greatest honor to have met you.