Day93: A letter from Barry

Hey, everyone, I’d like to write something via English, I know I have some loyal fans who read my passage every time, to be honest, I am so touched by this. I think the only thing what I can do is to update my article often as a feedback.

So now, I update again. I learned something about how to write a good passage well, but when using them, I found it’s tough to follow, so I’ll be ready to write as I want.

Some professional persons mentioned that if you want to improve your readers of passage, then you need to disseminate in your wechat moment, but I refused.

I just sent it to my wechat moment with some sentences which I like, I don’t care about whether some people read it, I don’t care about how many people think it’s a good passage or not.

Anyway, I do it following my heart. Writing is just for my hobby and never will be commercial. I define it for many times.

Here what I want to say, I found a nice place to stay in my free time, especially for weekends, I thing you got it before, because I made a small video when I was the first to come here, which gave me so cool feeling, and I was unforgettable.

In order to remember this perfect moment, I did some special things to let it record in my brain. This is what I called a small trick to make your life more meaningful, may also improve your happiness.

Try to find something you feel great, then give its meanings to record it as a part of your life. May it’s a stone, a picture, a video, a gift etc.

Put them in front of your computer or desk, you will be happy every time when you see it.

If you read it carefully or you could jump off my words, you will understand what I write is about life, more things what I did is to make me happy and feel good about ourselves.

This is just one side of a corn, there is still another side which I called “true life”.

I admit that it seems I did a not awful job but also not great, sometimes I feel not great to do it, but sometimes it’s okea.

There will be also one true idea occurred in my mind, the real and coming question: Had I did some preparations for my life in the next five years? I thought for a while but no answer, my answer is NO.

Visualize what will you need in five years? May marry, house, car….you will find the very true condition: you need money.

So let me give you a calculation, suppose you could get 5000RMB for peer month, if you did nothing for additional, then you will be 300,000 on hands.

This is just for total money you could get, please don’t forget you still need to eat, to drink, to have some necessary things you must pay for it. May you only get 150,000 at last.

What could you do for such money? To marry? Are you kidding? To buy a house, come on, please go back to your village.

The money will be not deserve the same five years later, more money on your hands will be cheaper.

So what could we do to get ready for it? Invest yourself and do your right things. What’s the right thing? There is no standard on it, it depends on you.

If you think you should do this, so you do this, if you think you should do that, so you do that.

You are the boss of yourself. You have an option, what you did now will affect your life in the future. May my words made you confused, I am sorry for that if it was.

I really want to express is that as we are youth, please don’t waste any time, time is money, just to think your future life, if you want to change so you could change.

As we was born in a small country, it’s okea, we can not change anymore, but we can choose our life, choose our attitude, our ways of life.

Such as, you could stay up until midnight, also you could choose to go to bed based on your schedule; you could sleep until noon, also you could get up at six o’clock.

Your choice made a difference from others. There is old saying which I likes very much: No pay, No gain.

May you get nothing if you work hard, but nothing to do, you definitely didn’t gain anything.

I’d like to make friends with same idea, or same hobbies, but I found none in XIEMEN, may it was because of my narrow social life, I need to enlarge it.

For now, I am sitting in a JIMEI XINGUAN library to write something, which is cool to stay here, I have stayed there for all day, I just love it so much.

That is what I did for today, finished my listening train of English, did conclusion of this week, learned my writing course, updated my passage including Jianshu and wechat number.

Oh, I forget to find my second job for weekends, may next time, I will have more things to do. The half-year of 2020 is over, what would you do? Please let me know if you like.

I am looking forward to receiving your words whoever you are……

Best Reards，

Barry