22岁时的你会给自己什么建议

本文由尤慕译自What advice would you give to your 22 year old self?

中译文

我22岁了，下面是我给自己的建议:

• 单身不是问题，即使你的朋友都订婚了
  • 感觉生活苦涩就是问题了
• 不确定自己在生活中想要什么不是问题
  • 停止探索自己想要什么就是问题了
• 有一个不那么好的工作不是问题，因为你需要钱
  • 总是抱怨工作就是问题了
• 尝试过但是失败了不是问题
  • 不敢尝试就有问题了
• 不必担心现在所处的位置或状态，只要你一直都在努力使它变得更好

英文原文

I am 22, so here's the advice I want to give to myself:

• It's OK to be single, even if all of your friends are engaged.
  • It's not OK to be bitter.
• It's OK to be unsure about what you want in life.
  • It's not OK to stop looking to figure it out.
• It's OK to have an not-awesome job right now because you need the money.
  • It's not OK to always be miserable at work.
• It's OK to try and fail.
  • It's not OK to fail to try.
• It's OK to be where you are right now, as long as you work on getting better.

I don't always follow my own advice, of course. I just want to be a better person at 23 than I am at 22, and this is how I plan to get there.