鸡蛋会不会痛

有一种理论说，平息一个人情绪的最好办法就是让这个人去思考。

今天在路过一个广场时，听见一个小孩哇哇大哭。仔细一听，原来是这个小孩在玩健身器材时，将自己的头磕到什么地方了，痛的哇哇大哭。

这个时候，孩子妈妈出现在旁边了，并没显得很焦虑或着急，只是简单看了一下，发现并没有什么大碍。就领着孩子边走边问，如果鸡蛋磕在那个东西上面会怎么样呢？

孩子继续哇哇地哭着，但一边哭一边回答到，鸡蛋会磕碎的。

妈妈接着问，那人的头怎么不会被磕碎呢？

孩子回答到，人的头比鸡蛋硬呀。

显然，在这一问一答的过程中，孩子的哭声已经很小了。

关于思考能平息情绪这个事，是在一本讲危机谈判专家的书上听到的理论。

今天在这个小孩身上，在这对母女的谈话中，让我真切地感受并领会到了其中的道理。

There is a theory that the best way to calm a person's emotions is to let that person think.

Today, as I was passing a square, I heard a child crying.

Listen carefully, it is this child in the play with fitness equipment, her head hit somewhere, pain and crying.

At this time, the mother of the child appeared next to him, and did not appear very anxious or anxious, just a brief look, and found that there was nothing serious.

Just lead the child and ask, what happens if the egg hits that thing?

The child continued to cry, but as she cried, she replied that the eggs would break.

Mother then asked, how can the man's head not be broken?

The child replied,  a man's head is harder than an egg.

Obviously, in this question and answer process, the child's crying has been very small.

The theory that thinking calms emotions is the theory heard from a book about crisis negotiators.

Today, in this child, in this mother-girl conversation, let me really feel and understand the sense.