Not be coward，just refuse it

A laughingstock has been going viral for a long time.People mock the man who always ingratiate the girl doesnt love him as licking dog（tian gou in Chinese）.

The word is used to describe someone who give up his dignity to avoid irritate or upset others.

It not a deal situation for all of them，I think it is a kind of morbid behavior.Everyone want to be nice in their daily life，but there always many people have to play like miscreant.And I deem the latter are brave.

I especially need to learn how to be a bad ass.Being an affable man cant be effective all the time.I will and must try not to be coward.May a little people be disappointed，whatever.