【22】日思录

1.扩积极词汇

①bleak

a.If a situation is bleak, it is bad, and seems unlikely to improve.

The  outlook of employment remains bleak.

②muddy

a.confused and not clear

The mixed comments make her attitude muddy.

b.muddy the waters / the issue to make a situation more complicated or confusing than it was before – used to show disapproval

They keep on muddying the waters by raising other complex issues.

2.运动

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3.TED

Seven deadly sins of speaking

Gossips （ Speaking ill of somebody who  isn't  present.

People gossiping ,five minutes later, will be gossiping about us.）

Judging

Negativity

Complaining（ another form of negativity/

the national art of the UK/viral misery/

It can not bring sunshine and lightness in the world.)

Excuses （ some have a blamethrower  and.just pass it on to somebody and then didn't take responsibility with action

Lying

Dogmatism. （The confusion of facts with the opinions.）

4.新习惯

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5.阅读

问题不在于「发生了什么」，而在于「如何诠释」

无论过去发生了什么样的事情，现在的状态取决于你赋予既有事件的意义。

原生家庭的话题一直受到热议。虽然，原生家庭在人的发展历程中确实扮演着重要的角色。我们往往也会因其影响可能接受了类似的说法。我们可能会把所存在的问题归咎于原生家庭的影响，而没有尽力突破那些桎梏，突破自我。但最终我们是可以改变其影响，主动权在于我们自身，赋予其怎样的意义 。