Just Be Who You Are

This noon, when i was climbing in the gym, a sentence just jumped into my mind.

" I just can't understand, why you still have so much fat on your body since you have been doing exercise everyday. If i eat like you and do so much exercise as you do, i must be very skinny now." That was what one of my colleagues said to me. Those words hurt. And i have heard them a lot. 

Sometimes i have the same wondering and start doubting myself. Are they right? Am i doing all the things uselessly? What's the point of me doing so much exercise everyday and still have a thick wrist? i am so frustrated sometimes, but i just can't stop doing exercise.

Then it suddenly occurred to me that actually i am crazy about doing exercise, i enjoy the moment when i am sweat and body sour. So, it is not that important if i am slim or not. My final goal is to be healthy anyway.

Always remember that you are unique. I am who i am, and it is because of all these things make me myself. It is true that i have big boobs, butt and maybe a bit thick wrist, but i should never be ashamed of all these. I am not Doris or Rita, i am JOYCE. i know i will never be one of them and i don't want to, to be honest. 

i just want to tell those who judge me, please stop. i am who i am and i will be who i am. i have my own uniqueness, and i don't want to be compared to anyone else. 

Always remember that things will get better as long as you have your own dreams, as long as you are fighting for your own dream, no one should ever judge you, because they are not qualified. Chase after your own dreams and never let anyone else stop you and influence you.