不强求、放开手、向前走

　　有人说：“人这一生的烦恼不过九个字，想不开、放不下、忘不了。”心之所以会觉得累，不过是因为执念在作祟。得不到的，偏要强求；留不住的，不舍放手；已成过往的，偏还要纠缠。

Some people say, "the troubles of a person's life are only nine words. They can't figure it out, can't put them down, and can't forget them." The reason why the heart will feel tired, but because of obsession in trouble. Insist on what you can't get, insist on what you can't keep, don't let go of what you can't keep, and still entangle what has become a thing of the past.

其实幸福与痛苦，往往只在一念之间。解开烦恼的三把钥匙，早已在我们手中。不强求、放开手、向前走，幸福就不会远走。

In fact, happiness and pain are often only between a thought. The three keys to unlocking troubles are already in our hands. If you don't force it, let go of it, and move on, happiness won't go away.

这世间有许多事，不是付出了汗水，就一定会满载而归；不是竭尽全力，就一定能尽如人意。有些东西本就无法强求。

There are many things in this world. If you don't pay your sweat, you will come back with a full load. If you don't do your best, you will be able to achieve what you want. There are some things you can't force.

但是，不强求并不代表认输，也不是遇到困难就轻易言弃的借口。

However, not being forced does not mean admitting defeat, nor is it an excuse to give up easily when you encounter difficulties.

努力之后的不强求，是一种超然的智慧，一种豁达的人生态度。尽力改变你所能改变的，但也有勇气接受你无法改变的。

Not to insist after hard work is a kind of transcendental wisdom and an open-minded attitude towards life. Try to change what you can, but also have the courage to accept what you can't.

很喜欢这样一句话：“我不怕输得一败涂地，只怕自己没有拼尽全力。”凡事追求，但不强求，在每一个奋斗的日子里不遗余力，故事的结局就顺其自然随它去。

I like this sentence very much: "I am not afraid of losing completely, but I am afraid that I will not try my best." Pursue everything, but do not force it, spare no effort in every day of struggle, the end of the story will let nature take its course.

得之，是幸；不得，也能淡定。

It is lucky to get it; if not, it can be calm.