#30天专注橙长计划#R2Day18温柔的坚持
你今年最有成就感的一件事情是什么?
橙长计划的进行!
Tonight, i listened to the presentation about writing that the companion of Orange Collegue made. I liked the saying " persist in softly".
Yesterday evening, I had a chat with Chloey. To be honest, at first, i tried to persuade Chloey to practice mental arithmetic. While, Chloey said to me: Let's have a talk. Then I listened to her. She told me so many things about the primary school life. At that time, i found it was such a long time that i haven't talked with my daughter whom i love to pieces. I was always anxious about her new school life, however i even didn't listen to her. I paid all my attention to the homework and the teacher's suggestions, not Chloey. That's terrible! So the education problem was not Chloey's, it's mine.
These days, i was confused. So many people told me parents couldn't be the friends of kids and i should be strict with Chloey, not soft which i always was.So i tried my best to be strict with her, which drived me unhappy and more anxious. Tonight, when i heard "persist in softly", i was enlightened. I asked myself "what do you want? what have you done for it? did you really know what Chloey wants?"
Thank god! I finally began to review myself and start a way to accompany my dear daughter. I'm looking forward to the changes!