what do you want

If I ask you, what do you want out of life, and you say something like, I want to be happy and have a great family and a job I like, it's so ubiquitous that it doesn't even mean anything. 

如果我问你，在人生中，你想收获什么，你跟我说，我想要幸福，我想要可爱的家庭，我想要我喜欢的工作，这样的回答是很宽泛的，甚至是没有意义的。

A more interesting question, a question that perhaps you've never considered before, is what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.

现在，我要问你一个更有意思的问题，你可能从来都没有思考过它。那就是，在人生中，你想经历什么样的痛苦？你愿意为什么而奋斗？因为，似乎这才是人生的决定因素。