散文翻译

1.一切都要小心（指的是要规规矩矩）behave yourself/properly

2.一家之主 head of the family

3.长辈们 your elders

4.住了下来 settle down

5.d担心是多余的I found my previous worries turned out to be unfounded

6.亲戚 in-laws

7.行为准则 code of conduct