failure

Failure is never pleasurable. It hurts adults and children alike. On the other hand, it can make a Positive contribution to your life once you learn how to take advantage of it. Step one is to ask, “why did I fail? ”Step two is to resist the natural impulse to blame someone else. Don't beat yourself up over your failure, either. Ask yourself what you did wrong and how you can improve. If someone else can help, don't be shy about asking. Maybe he or she has been though the same thing before. Many people enjoy helping others overcome a problem with which they have already struggled. This can save you a lot of time in learning how to repeat the same mistakes in the future.