Let’s talk about like and fit

Today ,I was told that what the crazy feeling of like was. Suddenly,I felt so grieved. What does it look like on earth –the crazy feeling of like?

That is, you will never thought of leaving room for yourself and letting others come into your inner just for the one you like. There is an impulse that you are eager to try your best to be with him even forever. Surely, nobody knows what will happen in the future. But,at least you are serious at that moment since you’ve made up your mind . Anyway,There is no lies.

Love all have a fixed pattern nowadays. Today,you two know each other,and you both think each good in many ways. For example,both of you have a normal personality,and you all look nice .For example,he has a respectable height which is your cup of tea. What’s more,he lives near you ,he has a steady job, and you are age-matched.

There is no throbs, no heartbeats, or even a cardioacceleration.

You just think he is the right one.

Then a week later, the man says to her,”Let’s have dinner together ”.Then he unbosoms himself to the girl and says,”You are a good girl ,would you mind being my girlfriend”?.

Then you say that you ‘ll take it into consederation..Then you give a reply to him.Then you begin a relationship with a man who can’t even give you a cardioacceleration.

Although he is excellent,people around you all say that they envy you so much ,because you have an good boyfriend , because he is not only tall but also has a steady job,what’s the most important,he is good to you. Then you feel glad,That’s Ok.Although he can’t give you a strong heartbeat,he is good. Let you stay with each other.

Anyway,women are kind of peacockish.

The friends of him also tell him that they envy him because he has a  nice,considerate,and decent girlfriend. So the man has the same feeling,yeah,so nice a girl,I have to try my best to be with her.

After all,men put their fame above all else.

But in brief,it’s not for love that you begin a relationship, right?

The pattern emerges,you start a so-called love.

In this love which has a particular pattern,you will have dinner together,watch movies together,and after that he takes you home .All of these are in a particular pattern.

Then it comes when someday you are told that couples should go on a trip together,so you do as told. Actually,all of these are patterns.You get tired up,you no longer feel happy,things end,and it’s time to break up.

At that moment,man is lazy to take you home,lazy to hold your hands going for a walk with you,even,he is lazy to go to movies with you.It is time for woman to doubt,quarrel and act senselessly.You want to break up ,men will say,”Are you sure”? Men can’t stand your insane anymore. Soon,you break up.

Do you know that if love do’t have genuineness as a support ,how it could be?

You simply have demands for each other.He just needs a girlfriend,and you just need a boyfriend,that’s all!

Whether you admit or not,it is the truth for most of you.

But exactly, just because of less love ,both of you are so strict with each other,right? Or just like what I’ve said, if either of you disfigures yourself by accident or if either of you encounters something unfortunate,can you still stay with him? If all of these lack the support of love,how it could be? Can he take care of a person who  can’t get his sincere forever love? Can he take care of a person just because he’ve had a relationship with you for one year?

I guess probably not.

Loves with patterns are merely full of complains. Why aren’t you good to me like before? Truely,if there is genuineness,love and believe in your heart,there will be no complains.

I’ve had a discussion with my mom towards love. . If you are still unhappy ,even after your love does endure while time is not standing still,is there anything deserves you yearn for?

My mom once said,love can’t always be full of fresh feelings. I’d like to say that I’ve forgotten the feeling of crazy like.I can not remember it clearly and also I don’t know what the feeling of being crazily liked really is.

So please don’t think too much, don’t consider how far you are to each other,don’t think about the trouble-some future.You may be more mature at that time, so show understanding more. Maybe because of sincere love,you won’t care much.

Giving always means getting  much feelings of happiness.Only true love can make one care less.

I thought people would understand more about love when one growed up at early time,now I think it reverves.Love indeed gives us less happiness. When one loves more,the less sense of security he will have.

When you feel happy,you dare to be happy,because you are afraid that he may be too proud of himself. When you are angry,you dare to be angry,because you are afraid that he will know how much you care for him. As one grows up,he will be accustomed to hide his emotion,his inner thoughts.

But is it a real reason that we are afraid to love? It seems that we tend to be involved in a relationship just for fitness,for loneliness but not for love.

To my point of view,I do believe love .I will marry someone that I really love.Life needs vigorous moments.You love,so you start a relationship without thinking so much.

When you fall in love with someone,his smile just like the wind of May,the sunlight,and your life will have less complains. In this way,you also save many cosmetics. As your mood become better,everything becomes better.

Because of love, you are easily happy.Once you sit right beside him , you feel the greatest happiness.